SOLUTIONS FOR FAMILIES

Ambassador Mohktar Lamani, at the United Nations:
"Paula Fellingham has the wonderful ability of empowering people to improve their lives and their relationships. As she strengthens individuals and families, she is strengthening communities and nations by providing solutions that work."

Jill Donnelly, President of World Movement of Mothers, Paris, France:
“Paula, you’re doing wonderful things to strengthen families in America. The good work you’re doing is needed now, more than ever before in the history of our world, as we sadly watch the disintegration of the family. It’s happening in every nation on the face of the earth. If only we had more women like you to lead families toward a brighter tomorrow!”

Roger Merrill, co-author of First Things First:
“Finally, here is a real-world, kitchen-table resource for building strong and happy family relationships.”

Dr. Michele Borba, author of Parents Do Make a Difference:
“I love Solutions For Families! I think it’s timely, relevant, and right on the mark. Paula Fellingham offers sensible, wise, research-based advice on how we can build stronger, kinder families during these turbulent times. It’s a powerful guide filled with wonderful, practical ideas and real solutions that will make a significant difference in parenting. I highly recommend it.”

Calvin W. Harper, co-founder of StreetSmart, a national award-winning video series:
“Solutions For Families offers real answers to the problems involved in teaching children respect, responsibility, accountability and honor. If you have children, you need this!”

Melissa Clay, seminar attendee, Los Angeles, CA:
“The principles Paula Fellingham teaches have changed my life. My every relationship has improved because of what I learned at her seminar in Los Angeles. Instead of speaking in vague generalities, Paula gives parents the very words to say which help us raise obedient, respectful and caring children.”

Angela Webb, seminar attendee, Boise, ID:
“Solutions For Families is incredible! Now I feel like I know what I’m doing. I’m parenting with knowledge instead of just guessing how to do it right. Every family, everywhere, needs this information!”

Marcia Ford, President, American Mothers, Inc:
“As Washington State Young Mother of the Year, you made a huge difference in your community and in the state. Thank you for teaching principles that have changed lives and dramatically affected families for good. When parents implement your strategies in their homes, the positive effects are felt for generations to come.”

Meeting planner Jodi Wilding, American Mothers, Inc:
“Paula Fellingham had every meeting attendee absolutely mesmerized. She combines her unbelievable wealth of knowledge with humor and passion that’s contagious. I found myself laughing along with everyone as Paula shared stories and examples that were all too ‘close to home’ and then tearing up as Paula shared insights and principles that touched my heart and will help me change my life.
Paula Fellingham is, hands down, the best keynote speaker our association has ever had. She is easy to work with and over-the-top fabulous. As the meeting planner, she made me a hero with our members.”

Paul Brockbank, former VIP of Franklin-Covey; current CEO of ah-ha.com:
“Paula, you are gifted and special – nothing short of inspiring. Your life is amazing and you are incredible. You have the code cracked in a wonderful way.”

Pavel Suian Ambassador from Romania:
"Paula, your Solutions For Families program has the power to touch countless lives for good. The families who use your valuable information and parenting advice will be forever grateful to you. My best wishes for success in the United States and worldwide as you endeavor to strengthen families."

Thomas Chock, seminar attendee:
"Thank you for your great ideas about parenting. I've already used your principles with my son and I was successful! It felt great!"

Sharon Merritt, seminar attendee:
"Thank you so much for the wonderful presentations! My husband and I both
enjoyed them so much and learned much that we wish we had known many years ago when our children were younger. Your topics were so well organized and well presented, with clarity and no bunk or useless rhetoric. Please tell me where I can get your video and anything else you produce!"

Emily Curtis, university student:
"I appreciate you very much. I learned more from you than I ever thought possible. I have had many family problems, and now I know how to handle
them. Thank you again!"

Neil and Kathryn Anderson, radio show listeners:
"We have been listening to your 'Solutions For Families' radio show and enjoy your insight and philosophy. We are very impressed. We'd love to have all of the information we can get from you."

Steve Howes, seminar attendee:
"I want to thank you so much for your work with families. I came away moved, uplifted and determined to make changes in my life. Thank you for showing the way and helping me to be motivated to move forward."

Lonnie McLaughlin, University student:
"In all honesty, Paula Fellingham is the best teacher I've had in my seven semesters at this university. Her enthusiasm for family and motherhood radiates in every fiber of her being. It is because she has been diligent in her family that she is a success in teaching. Thank you for what you have done for all of us."

Stephanie Atwood, seminar attendee:
"Not only did I love your words and wisdom but I truly felt some of your words were directed right to me. You inspired me to be better and to try harder to be a better person. Thanks. I am also looking forward to your new book and can't wait to read it."

Rebecca Soderquist, university student:
"I love Paula Fellingham's enthusiasm, personality, insights, information
and experiences. When she taught I felt like I was drinking from a firehose and is was marvelous! I love her energy!"

Sandy Olsen, university student:
"I really enjoyed the practical application that you teach along with the principles. I hope this information will help me be a better individual,
wife and mother. Thank you so very much! You are an excellent and gifted teacher. I feel it is a great blessing to have been in your class."

"Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have total peace and harmony in your home? With family members speaking kindly and treating each other with love and respect?"

Dear Friend,

Hello! My name is Paula Fellingham and I can help you CREATE that LOVING ATMOSPHERE in your home...so your family life becomes one of continual peace and joy.

Find out why so many high-profile people rely on me for help in the most important area of their lives, and how I can quickly help you, too.

For 26 years I've helped parents - all over the world - overcome incredible obstacles and painful relationships. I've shown them, in simple steps, how to repair relationships and create strong, successful families..and I can show you exactly what works - and what doesn't work. No matter how bad your family situation is, let me explain how you can enjoy peaceful, loving relationships...starting immediately.

You may think it's too late...or that you didn’t have good parenting examples...or that your family won’t ever change. Perhaps when you see other families laughing and enjoying being together, it hurts your heart and you feel discouraged. First know this: There are no perfect families! So many other families have problems just like yours, and the solutions are far easier and more do-able than you may think.

I've taught my simple family-strengthening strategies to leaders of nations at the United Nations, to organizations worldwide, to families across America, and to my own seven children (now grown and living successfully on their own). And I’ll show you, step-by-step, exactly what to say and do for your family.

Ambassador Mohktar Lamani, at the United Nations said, "Paula Fellingham has the wonderful ability of empowering people to improve their lives and their relationships. As she strengthens individuals and families, she is strengthening communities and nations by providing solutions that work."

Two short stories of families I helped say it all...

Recently a mother called me and said that her children quarrel constantly...that their family can't even eat a meal together without criticism, put-downs and quarrels. This mother confessed that she and her husband weren't always the best examples for their kids. She said with frustration, "We're in such a rut...I'm sick and tired of it!" I told her three things she could say to her family - beginning that very day - and we agreed to talk about the outcome one week later.

But less than 72 hours later she called and exclaimed, "Paula - when you told me those three things to say to my family I must admit I was skeptical - I had no idea how fast it would work. But this is absolutely unbelievable! My children are more respectful and obedient already! There's a whole new level of kindness in our home that we've never had before...I love it!"

These same simple strategies will work for you too...

On November 16, 2002, I spent the day counseling a family with eight children. Here's what they said: "Paula is extremely knowledgeable - but more than that, she solves BIG family problems! Paula came highly recommended, and she exceeded our highest expectations. Her strategies are priceless. We've experienced an increase of love, peace and unity in just the short time we’ve used her ideas! It was an incredible day that our family will never forget."
Trevin and Jennifer Wilson

Let me share a few of my Amazing Secrets that even most "experts" aren't hip to. These secrets can help your family the minute you use them!

• 3 simple sentences that put an immediate end to name-calling, hitting, and quarreling. (These are the same three sentences I told the mother with quarreling children - who later called and reported instant results)
• 5 easy things that keep you close to your teenager. "They’re almost magic in their effectiveness!"
• How to instantly eliminate whining and negative talk in your home. Just imagine...no more whining or rude tones of voice! (And I’ve had 100% success with this!)
• Simple, straightforward words to improve your marriage relationship...tonight! (These words make weak marriages strong and good marriages great)
• 3 easy steps to defuse any angry person.
• Exactly the right thing to say immediately after your child disobeys. (A strategy that creates instant changes)
• 5 Keys to Great Communication. (Learn the exact words that turn conflict into peace)
• 3 easy, quick ways to make discipline a positive experience. (Hey, this really works!)
• How to immediately eliminate two monsters that damage relationships - criticism and sarcasm.
• Just two things you need to tell your kids every day that teach them kindness and good manners.
• Simple ways to teach your children to look through "windows" to see the needs of others, instead of looking through mirrors, seeing only their own needs and desires. (The strategy that teaches how to take the "self" out of self-esteem and create compassionate, confident, appreciative children)
• Simple ways to stop the hurt before it happens...ways to anticipate and avoid family conflict.
• The 3 things you can do to insure a healthier marriage than you’ve ever had. (You’ll be amazed at how these simple strategies will enable your partner to cherish you)
• 2 highly effective ways to create family organization and unity...in just 19 minutes!
• What to say to unplug the power of toxic personalities and live peacefully.
• How to assess your strengths and weaknesses with a short survey that will reveal how each family member really feels.
• How to have 15 minute Weekly Family Meetings that will immediately bring unity and increased love into your home. (And you’ll get an agenda, the very words to say at the meeting, lots of character-building lessons for your children, heart-warming stories and so much more)
• Priceless parenting advice to help you become the parent you know you should - and can be.
• 25 easy-to-understand, quick lessons (about 12 minutes each!) for the whole family. Lessons on kindness...positive communication...taking responsibility ...understanding one another...serving others from the heart...making wise choices...achieving physical/mental/ social/financial well-being...successful goal-setting...and much, much more. (And they’re sooo simple to use!)
• How to easily and quickly release yourself from all damaging beliefs and self-defeating thoughts. (Become the confident, loving wife/husband and parent you want to be, with lightning speed!)

Order using our safe, secure ordering system and receive:

1) Solutions For Families: 24 Lessons To Strengthen Relationships At Home
248 Page Family-Strengthening Manual

2) Creating a Successful Family: Six Essential Steps
55 Minute Parenting Video

3) The Parents Guide: Child-Raising Instructions You Always Wanted
Valuable Parenting Instructions Every Parent Needs

Three incredible products - chock-full of family-saving and family-strengthening information that can change your life for only $39.95! The changes can start immediately! The new power and confidence you are about to discover can change your life quickly, permanently, and for the better.

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And within 24 hours we’ll ship all of your products directly to you, for only $39.95! and within days you'll be enjoying...and be empowered by...

1) Solutions For Families: 24 Lessons To Strengthen Relationships At Home
248 Page Family-Strengthening Manual

2) Creating a Successful Family: Six Essential Steps
55 Minute Parenting Video

3) The Parents Guide: Child-Raising Instructions You Always Wanted
Valuable Parenting Instructions Every Parent Needs

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Let me be crystal clear. I can help you, and you only need to take the first step. I've gathered a lifetime of learning, and I can’t wait to share it with you!

Warmest Regards,

Paula Fellingham

P.S. More information about my family-strengthening products...

Your Solutions For Families Manual is chock-full of priceless information for the whole family! You'll be able to assess your family strengths and weaknesses with a short easy-to-do survey that everybody takes (and there are plenty of survey copies in your book). In fact, I just have to stop and tell you a quick story here.

One night a woman came to my home in tears.
She said, "I had no idea my teenagers were so unhappy! We took the survey and oh, my gosh! My kids have serious issues about our family. Well, after the survey we followed your instructions exactly about how to share our feelings openly and honestly. It was the first time we ever did that and it was the best communication we’ve had in years! Now that I understand how my teenagers feel,we can work together to fix the problems."

Also...Solutions For Families shows you how fast and easy it is to create a Family Mission Statement. You say you don’t have one? You’ll be amazed that it only takes about 10 minutes to make this "family constitution." And wow! What a difference it makes!

For example, if your child hits somebody, you'll take her over to the Family Mission Statement (it'll be hanging on the wall), and you'll say, "Look, Tracy, you signed our Family Mission Statement. It says we all want to love one another...and that means no hitting, doesn’t it? Hands are for loving, honey." And you'll learn other ways to leverage your Mission Statement, too.

And what’s the most important, number one thing you can do to strengthen your family? Hold weekly family meetings! You might be thinking, "Yeah, right - a weekly meeting with MY family? I don’t think that'll work!" But you know what? It will! I know it can work IF you do just 3 simple things (you'll find them in your manual). I'll guide you through your first 15-minute, organized Weekly Family Meeting. I'll give you the very words to say, a short character-building lesson, and much, much more!

Solutions For Families also offers tons of parenting advice and strategies, and then provides 24 lessons to teach children of all ages. These are short, easy-to-understand lessons on kindness, responsibility, making wise choices, etc. Each lesson has the same format: a quick review from the previous lesson (to ensure your kids really learned something), the lesson concept, a wonderful story, discussion questions, a FUN family activity, and an assignment. Your activities follow your lessons...it’s all there together! And each activity is designed with your kids in mind. I promise...you've never seen a family-strengthening manual like this!

"Creating A Successful Family: Six Essential Steps" is one video your family can watch together! Now you can SEE how to strengthen your relationships!

• Watch as children disobey, and observe the way I discipline.

•Watch as I use positive reinforcement, good self-fulfilling prophecies, and teach children how to speak and act kindly.

•Watch and see a teenager defy her curfew and learn how parents - AND teenagers - can handle conflict.

• Watch and hear! Quarreling, sarcasm, and whining --then learn how to effectively deal with it.

•And so much more...

Unlike books, you'll find this video a unique tool that the whole family can experience together...watching and then discussing the video's Six Essential Steps. They are:

•Create A Loving Atmosphere
•Communicate Positively
•Organize Your Family
•Teach Correct Values
•Commit Your Time and Heart
•Discipline Effectively

Your kids will especially enjoy seeing our family perform on different stages across America. You see, during the summer months for many years our family performed as a country bluegrass band - with our seven children playing instruments and singing in four-part harmony. In our last year on tour we presented 273 shows at "Six Flags Great America" in Chicago. After performing at the United Nations and in Europe, our children started getting married so we hung up our fiddles, banjo, mandolin, and other instruments. That's when I started hosting a family-strengthening radio show for two hours a day, five days a week.

DON'T WAIT A MINUTE LONGER! Either order online, on our safe and secure ordering system, or call 1-866-469-6636. Raise the level of love, unity and happiness in your family by ordering your products today!

For information on booking a presentation for your company or organization, contact Paula Fellingham at: paula@solutionsforfamilies.com

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